Like when women hate men it’s frustrating at worst, maybe it hurts someone’s feelings, but when men hate women they are shamed, abused, patronized, demeaned, objectified, raped, and murdered, ya feel me, so even if I WAS a raging misandrist like worst case scenario I’d be a bummer at parties, meanwhile a girl somewhere literally can’t leave her house because it’s dark outside.
no, it shouldn’t be brushed off, and in the eyes of the law the murderer is entirely at fault as is the rapist or the burglar. and no he didn’t deserve to die, almost nobody deserves to die or be raped, but you can’t play the idiot. idiocy is no excuse, even in america.
i told you before, preventative measures only reduce your risk, but there is no “what then” you just try to arrest the bad guy do what can be done for the victim, and if possible, try to prevent the crime from happening again.
thats not what he’s saying at all. you’ll agree with me in saying that wearing a shirt is not good cause for getting murdered, yet you’d consider me an idiot for wearing one in gang territory where the shirt is rival gang color. now in the eyes of the law, the gang member who killed me is guilty of murder and should be punished, but if i had not gone into gang territory or not worn the shirt i would not have died. though in the same breath, i should state i can still be killed in the safe parts of a town, and for no reason.
so to connect this metaphor to you, getting really drunk or wearing revealing clothing is like going into a dangerous part of town in rival gang clothing. but, yes, even if you don’t get drunk and don’t wear revealing clothing, you can still be raped, much the same way i can be killed. while there is no complete preventative measures for anything, there are ways for reducing the risks.
in the end what you need to remember is predators won’t stop, by simply saying, “teach them not to rape.” not all men are rapists, in fact most aren’t.
but if you still feel that not taking preventative measures isn’t important, please don’t be a hypocrite and walk in the dangerous parts of your town late at night.
he’s not saying it’s a woman’s fault they get raped, he’s saying for some people its impossible to control their temptations when they see women flirting so it would be wise to take precaution against those psychopaths. he’s also saying that if you consenting at the time of the sex its not rape, and if you regret it because the sex was bad, yet you consented that’s not rape.